Here! Here! I agree with you completely. When we hate someone, we hold ourselves in bondage to that person. It occupies our thoughts and can spur us to act out according to that hate.

We can forgive, but we don't need to forget what was done to us. We remember in order to stay out of harms way next time, but we don't use up precious energy on someone who doesn't deserve it.



"It's not what you gather, but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived."