I think that i might be over paranoid but i need to know if this is possible.

My medications have given me a total loss of sex drive and it is driving my husband crazy.He feels neglected and that i am not attracted to him anymore. Which is so not the case!!!!

But for the last little while he has been having sex with me while I sleep.I have woken up with mess in and on me on many occasions. And when I have woken up I froze because I have been raped that way before(heavily medicated with sleeping pills)Sometimes I shrug him off and he quits but other times he geets pushy and tries to roll me over. Sometimes i just get up and go sleep on the couch.

When I confront him he says that he is also sleeping. Is that possible? He is sitting right up and moving me around how could he be sleeping? And when I push him away he huffs and rolls over mad at me because i don't want to do anything.

I told my friend and she said it is still rape and tell him if he doesn't quit that you will charge him. I feel guilty because he wants it and I don't and what if he is actually sleeping.

How do I stop this?!?!