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Old Jul 10, 2011, 12:02 PM
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Hey Cats,

It was nice of her to help you out with your car, I am surprised she offered to pay, however she obviously knows you will pay her back.

I agree with other people that boundaries are very blurred in the relationship but I think that happened long before this incident, as even going to the gym with a therapist is a bit odd, even though some therapists do it, as to me it seems like something two friends would do.
So since the relationship is already blurred, I am not surprised she helped you in this way and if she was going to cross the lines anyway then I guess helping someone get their car to get home is probably a better line to cross than others that she already has.

I don't know what my T would do in this situation, although it is very unlikely to happen as I park on her private property with her permission. She would usually have a client after me so she wouldn't even be able to do what yours did but if in a situation were I had no other choices and as I live quite far from where my session takes place, she may try to help me out.

lol **huge hugs**
Thanks for this!
PTSDlovemycats