Don't worry Silverbell! I'm not in the least offended, and you made a good point... okay, my behaviour was really incredibly daft at the time, but if I hadn't been such a sex maniac I wouldn't have ended up with my own dear son. So yes... "why is that stupid".... Sex is there to be enjoyed after all. Ok, my son's father and I did break up in the end, but I still think that adults can be tremendously sexual together, and absolutely love it, and still have long term happy relationships.

For the record, I'm still good friends with this ex (NOT friends with benefits) and can't really regret any of the manic "shag me or I'll die" moments... at least we had a lot of fun. A LOT of fun... and he never complained when I went bonkers and flung myself at him. So... not the worst thing in the world!