How about you talk to whoever prescribed your meds and talk about the problem. There are meds that don't do that.

I'm a woman, and judging from all of the responses you've gotten, I'm wondering where any smidgeon of consideration for the husband is!! Marriage is a two way street, people! Marriage isn't all about one or the other, it's about BOTH!

I'm not saying that this ISN'T rape, but I was raped by my ex. It wasn't PASSIVE!!

You need to deal with this problem TOGETHER!

Good luck.