OK, so I called and spoke with her doctor this morning. I explained that her behaviour was irrational and irrisponsible.

The doctor listened and added notes to her record. However, as I expected, she cant get involveld until my expoartner goes back to the doctors. The doctor did ask if I could persuade her to get an appointment and I expl,ained that I'm not currently living there and that she avoids conversation with me. So, all I can do is this week try and see if she will talk to me and listen to me and maker an appointment at the doctors. I'm not holding my breath though!