Sept... no need to be fiesty. Let's get back to cstrong...

cstrong, I hope you can work this out. I would feel very violated too, under the circumstances. When you talk to him tonight, stay true to your instincts -- if it feels wrong to you, then it is wrong. I know that it won't be an easy conversation to have, but it is very important that he understand that you consider it to be a violation and that it cannot continue. Good luck