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Originally Posted by PTSDlovemycats
POSSIBLE TRIGGER She has helped me come a long way. Like I said im my other thread I used to SI quite often and would have Sui attempts averaging every 2 months. It has been over a year since my last Sui attempt and my SI is a lot less compared to where it used to be. She has taught me a lot about myself, has shown me new ways to cope, has taught me that I am capable of doing things on my own, always is there for me when I need her, goes above and beyond for me. She even called me from her vacation in Hawaii once to see how I was coping...
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Looks to me like the results speak for themselves. T is maintaining her boundaries (T didn't take the client on vacation with her!). As for the car towing, sometimes they charge you extra if you don't get to it right away, so I can see why T did it, esp after a gym session. You don't need that kind of stress after a session. We can see in other threads that T is indeed gently nudging Pcats out of the nest. I can't believe how strong Pcats has been in light of all these PC questions, I would have had my face stuck in a B&R31 bucket long ago. But bottom line any boundary violations must be talked about (as we are doing here), not swept under the rug, so this conversation is a good thing.