Takes me like 3 months to know if I even want to be friends with someone. I need for that time to pass mostly to see if they get on my nerves, have some kind of major flaw that isn't immediately obvious, but that I don't want to live with for the rest of my life (I might be a little slow!). AND that they bring a lot of GOOD stuff in - am I still fascinated by the person after 3 months? Then a sitcom char had a 3-month rule before she would become intimate that her friends teased her about on the show, but makes sense to me! Diana Ross's daughter, maybe? Anyway, point is not how HE feels, but how do YOU feel, and action proceeds on YOUR terms. What's the rush? Kind of a red flag for me.