Okay, I will start this out by saying I am not kicking these kids out. At least right now I can't imagine doing so. I know for many of you it's been very frustrating to hear me complain about the sos and not do anything to change it. I decided a few weeks ago that I would find the calm and peace inside to allow me to love graciously and know it is about them.

Fast foreward to today. Things had been pretty okay. My son has taken the bulk of the responsibility for his girlfriend getting to work and then has been polite enough to ask me when they need help. Yesterday I had T till 12:30 and needed to wait around in town until 2:30 to get her after work. We had decided that she should stop at the house and get my youngest daughter and bring her to another town to see her T. What the means is that I gor home at 3:00. My body loadly protesting all of the work I had done the day before, and having a cow that I was doing more work. I took mega meds so I could move and finished the mopboard in my upstairs hallway. I left a note for both girls, mine and the girlfriend asking mine to please put all clean dishes away and fold up the blankets and such on the couches and straighten up couches. The girlfriend I asked to please sweep the kitchen, hall and bath. My kid did her thing, the other one ignored me, left a little later to go out with my son.

This morning hubby was turning off lights in kids room which are always left on, as is the tv and dvd player. As he was turning out the light he found a summons for my son to appear in court for DUI POT, and posession. This was issued on
Feb 1. He has not told us. I have no intention of hiring our family attorney. Thing is if he is found guilty he loses all federal aide for college. Who does he have to blame? Him. He will find a awy to turn it around and make himself a poor little victim. he came home baked the night before last from work and told me the girlfriend had driven him home. He was so baked he was all over the map. Woulda been a good time to get money out of him. He says the guys at work have a poker night with...... and that's how he got high.

I have no intention of speaking to him about this unless he brings it up, and when/if he does I will tell him to get a public defender and deal with it. Public defenders around here are worthless.

However, I did not do the crime, HE DID.

Vent Vent Vent. He is so broke but can socialize and spend money. He can be so darned lazy he can't even empty trash like I asked last night. And then the little creep yells at me today when I started mentioning that he could do a few things before he left again. He said something like which would I prefer, his quitting his job or school? Yes, he is taking 19 credits but big hairy deal. I have totally had it with his f-ing up. he is not stupid. He does not take responsibility for himself, his actions or his life. I didn't get him high and put him behind the wheel.

After sitting in court a few times he will get 60 hours on the work crew and a conviction for posession. By By student aide.......