I hope I've done the right thing.

I went around the house this evening on my way back from work. Myself and my expartner had a coffee and a ciggy in the garden and she seemed quite calm and 'normal' to be honest! I didnt mention anything about 'us' even though we've been split for 3 weeks and after 12 years she has nothing to say about the matter.

Could I have got this all wrong?

But, I know what I know; she has been acting recklessly and she has been irrational. She has been acting out of character from the woman I know her to be after so long.

Is this in any way typical of somebody with BP; to be reckless and irrational one day and appear quite calm and normal the next? I'm confused!

If the last episode is anything to go by (April last year) I'd expect her become quite withdrawn and somewhat depressed next.

Sometimes I think I might be reading things into the situation to convince myself that she wouldnt possibly do such nasty things to me - like I'm blaming her actions on BP when she is in fact completely fine and just wants to move on!

I didnt find the opportunity to ask her about her medication though; I totally avoided asking anything about medication, our relationship etc.

By the way; I really appreciate all your replies so far.