Hi Lacey...........
Yes I would absolutely bring it up with him. If you are afraid to say it, bring in a copy of the letter you posted here or type a new one. If he is such a great T(and I am not saying he is not) give him a chance to defend himself or at least tell you his side of the story. The way he reacts to this will let you know if you should continue to work with him. If he is angry, mad that you found out, accusatory towards you, etc. run like hell and find another. However, if he is understanding, apologetic, and can see where you are coming from..................see what he says. If that is the case I am sure there is more to the story. I am surprised he has not disclosed this to other clients who might be seeing this other therapist. And if you are nervous at all, bring another person with you if you think that might help.(if you can) Try to show you are concerned about this rather than appauled or angry as he is more likely to tell you more if you don't get his defenses up. Be sure to let us know what happens. By the way, I think you are handling this well and a lot of people would leave and never come back. Maybe this guy is a good T but a bad businessman? Just guessing.
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