It's always great when people come out of the woodwork and reveal that they like you, isn't it? I know it would be completely and totally tempting and easy to go out with any one of those guys that like you, but sad enough they are NOT what you want...you've said that already.

You want a woman who you find attractive and who is compatible with you. My suggestion would be to keep searching for her. I know that can be quite frustrating at times to just keep searching, but I wouldn't want you to settle for something you didn't really want.

When I'm with someone and it becomes known that someone else likes me, no matter how good the relationship I'm in, I always end up ruining everything and going after the new person. Why? I can't stand it if I can't have someone who's into me. It's like I have to experience it. Don't do that...it's a really bad idea. I'm trying not to do that in the relationship I'm in now.

You deserve to have someone who likes you for you and who you WANT.