After 6 years I broke up with my boyfriend because he was physically abusive and never put any effort into our relationship. I moved to the other side of the country. I was there for one month, and during that month I had sex with someone else, as well as went on a couple dates with the guy. A lot of drama started with my best friend there so I chose to pack my things up and move back in with my parents. My ex boyfriend at the time calls me up offering to fly out to wherever I was at to drive back to my parents with me and during that drive we would discuss whether we should get back together or not. He was out there by the next morning and right then I knew he really wanted to make things work with me because he dropped everything so quickly to help me out. I never told him about that guy. I didnt feel it was his place to know about the other guy unless we DID get back together. Within 30 minutes-1 hour into the drive back to my parents, my "best friend" texted my boyfriend all the dirt she had on me. Now, my boyfriend knows about the other guy and is mad that I hadn't told him first. We've decided to work things out so I move back in with him. It's been a month and we're still arguing on a daily basis about the other guy. I feel really bad for doing what I did, so during this month I have been bending over backwards to show my boyfriend how much I love him, care about him, and would do anything in the world for him but he's just not having it. he keeps going through my facebook and the other guys facebook to see if there's something else he can find out about my life while we were broken up. He might find a comment where I told the guy he was cute or something and my boyfriend will get mad about that all over again. He already knows I had sex with this guy, he knows I have nothing to do with him anymore, and I've given him my passwords to my facebook and emails and let him check my phone records so he knows Im not talking to that guy or any other guy for that matter. It seems like no matter what I do, he just wants to keep bringing it up. Even when we arent "discussing" the situation, he's always throwing little jabs at me here and there even when we're around our friends and family. And if I get aggravated that its been a month and we're still ARGUING about this on a daily basis, he'll retaliate by calling me a slut or *****, or telling me he hates me, or even walking into our living room and shouting things out to my roommates like "hey how do you guys feel about her ****ing some other guy?!" I understand my boyfriend is hurt, and I'm willing to do whatever it takes to make things right with him but he keeps digging for more dirt on me, and gets mad when I dont recall every single detail about one of our dates. My boyfriend brings this situation up at the worst possible times (like right before going to a family get together), and he brings it up multiple times a day. How long should I let this go on for? It's been a month, should we still be talking about it as much as we do? Should I allow him to go through my facebook, and his facebook just so he can get mad about certain comments that he and I sent to eachother? How do I help my boyfriend get past this and make him realize that what I did then was a huge mistake and he is all I want and I dont want anything to do with that guy and I just want to move forward with our life together?! Advice needed terribly!!