thanks, I do agree I don't have the whole story, that's why I put ''if he is'' so it left some open room for doubt. And yeah, can't do anything without really having the issue at hand, meaning I am so distant I should keep distant. I tried best to keep short to his reply that set me off... I should had stayed away (Lol)... I tend to get that way with involving me, and my emotions, I try to catch myself...try to..I've gotten better at work with that thankfully. Thanks though.

Yeah I need to limit my time on facebook, I tend to stay out of others tiffs but this one was hard not to...