My son was engaged and found out his fiance had been caught shop lifting. She is 23. He is 26. She also got caught stealing pills from a friends bathroom cabinet. Long story short,he broke off the engagement. Two months later they have a "fling" and she is now pregnant. He is mad, and says she intentionally did so to force him to marry her. He says he does love her but feels she has some mental issues he just doesn't want to live with, so he won't marry her. I tried to convince him to go to counseling with her, but he says he sees no point. But, what about this baby that he conceived..if the mother is that unstable should he marry her just to assure the baby will be cared for adequately???