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Originally Posted by SoupDragon
Hi Sanada - I have experienced dark times and what I now realise is that at those times I am just not thinking straight - so for me although people that are left behind may suffer great pain, the person themselves was not a coward, they were jsut really unwell and could think of no other way of stopping their pain. In the UK there are specialist bereavement charities that can offer professional support, I wonder if there are similar where you are? Maybe it is not trying to forget about it that is important, but to talk about it.
Take care Sanada.
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thanks soup dragon. I know i dont think the worst of anyone who does that (least of all coward). I guess its my own anger at dealing with it. I do not mean to offend anyone, its just the response i get from others. Every body has an opinion of what happened, i just miss him i guess.
In the UK there are charities to help deal with it, but i feel i need to face it alone, appart from coming here to get advice and help. PC has helped i more ways than one, it has helped in ways i could not imagine (thanks PC).
I like to think as PC as my support network when i need it, i have my T and Doc, but its not the same, and when @ 3am and i need to talk my T is in bed. Its always late and after i see a T when i find what i wanted to say in an appt.
Thanks for the reply.
Take Care.
Sanada
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