Update:
So 'Sara' sensed that I was feeling kind of down yesterday. I kind of told her (in a nice, non controlling way) that while I appreciate the way she feels about me, some times I feel as though she is not giving me any time.

I should have mentioned in my original post (but didn't want to make it super long) that 'Sara' has a 1 year old baby. And she does work a lot. She seems like the anxious type and gets worried a lot. It is possibly when she gets stressed out she really can't think about anything but her problems at hand. If this is the case, how would I deal with it while still requesting some of her time? She made my heart feel safe last night by the words she was saying and she apologized numerous times for not giving me enough time. I know I will have to guard my heart And of course let everything go with the flow