It's been ten days and yesterday i asked his assistant if he had received any of my messages or if it was a technical issue. she got back to me and said that he would call me today. he did leave me a voicemail and i know im being stubborn but i feel like knowing how upset i was, he waited so long to get back to me and might have not even called if i didn't contact his asst. i feel he often forgets what i say, assures me of things that don't happen or promises to do something but doesn't- not to be mean but beause he is too busy i think. but after a year im starting to get irritated that i always have to try to understand him and excuse him. like he'll say, "i want you to email me your thoughts on a, bc and c" and then i do but he doesn't respond. then if i bring it up in session he says he didn't have time to read his emails- then why does he ask me to do these things? He doesn't take it well if i say im upset w/ him in some way- he ignores it completely. Like last month i found out i had a tumor (luckily it is noncancerous) but he told me to tell him what happened at the doctor. So i leave him a message saying it was was tumor and he writes, "wow". but that's it. he didn't bother to ask me how i was doing. I feel torn because i am attached to him and have disclosed a lot to him so it would be too annoying to start over... Sorry this is so long