NSH4 - Sincere and caring questions coming...

2 weeks in and she is pregnant. Are you absolutely sure it is your child?
How old are each of you?

From what you have shared with us - I get the impression that you are both still pretty young, haven't finished school and are still questioning what/who you want to become in life. If that is the case - no, you aren't being selfish. There is a vision ahead of you that may still be many years off - and you are aiming for it.

As a person who married too young and went through a divorce - I hope you are able to consult with professionals for guidance. As difficult as it might feel - it would possibly be best for the unborn child to be put up for adoption.

The job of being a parent is not easy. From my own experience, it was and still is the hardest job of my life. (My sons are all adults - but they still come back to me to parent them - once a parent - always a parent).