Maybe the way to find out if she is the right therapist for you is to show her the post you wrote on here. I am sure a good therapist would know how to deal with it well and not let any of their "own stuff" get in the way. Wouldn't it be great if we could only take our assertive adult rational selves with us to T and not get bogged down with all that other stuff that goes on in our heads.

Good luck cats. SD