WTF?? We are here for you, Cats. I must say that your T who is unknown to me is very high on my isht list!! This is amazing! Wow! Unbelievable! I am not one to encourage someone to leave a T, but wow! You are very strong and brave, Cats. I hope you find the best solution to these issues your having with therapy. Therapy should only rattle us because it forces us to deal with our demons, not because the T is an *****. You deserve a warm, caring, and supportive T that helps you heal, not worsen your suffering. Your T may have been that way in the past, and if you continue seeing her, I pray she returns to her old self.

I am so annoyed for you, and I feel your pain. She deserves far more than a foot stomping or slashing of the tires. She is bullying someone in a less powerful position, and I so wish there were someone at her level to put her in her place. I hope your old T is able to do that, or is able to give you the tools to communicate how you feel and what you expect and need from a T. I hope, since you are very attached to your T, that she can meet your expectations and needs, rather than delay your healing or, worse, hurt you.