((Cats))

I SO get this. It makes sense to me.

Probably, one of the biggest difficulties I have had in therapy is for T's to recognize their OWN stuff. Recently, my current T did something really stupid. It triggered alot of pain for me. I sent T an email asking if he was going to "punish" me for HIS error. (There had been a pattern with two other T's) Sometimes, T's don't like to see negative parts of themselves. I don't know if that is what is happening here but it may be the case.