T told me he is in love with me. He has said it more than once. We are both married, nevermind the whole therapist/client dilemma. T insists he can still treat me and we can be OK as long as we don't act on our feelings. I told hiim while back that I had transference and felt love for him. That, to me, is different than him telling me he loves ME. I do love him, but I know darn well it is not healthy. It was OK with me when I thought it was just normal transference. Now that he says he loves me, it's caused my depression to crash like the Hindenberg. AND, he's stopped returning my texts asking for help. Nice, eh?