Pardon me for saying this , but her method of terminating with patients is both immature and nonprofessional,and goes against all generaly accepted standards.

That said, I just want to say, cats, that I remember the day I got the same phone call about my mom. There are no words to describe the feelings that you feel, so many, so fast. What your T said to you was cruel and abusive, when you needed her to be supportive and understanding. I hope things turn out ok for your mom.

She has created whatever boundary problems she is complaining about, not you. I know you have felt close to her, but many abuse victim feel close to their abusers. I hope you old T can see you and you can have a really honest heart to heart talk with him/her. Things are just not going right with your T right now cats, I hate to say.

Let us know how today went. Thinking of you.