(((((((Siljie)))))))
Somehow you are going to have to work at gaining strength. But I want you to know that this person is the one who truely suffers. This girl obviously has issues that you don't know about yet. Somehow you have something that she wishes she had. And because she doesn't have it she doesn't want you to have it either. And there will be times in your life that you may address this again. So, you have to work on building up your strengths and learning how to not let others interfere with who you are. Because the more they think they are taking from you the more power they will think they have over you. So, you are going to have to work with your T at learning how to stand your ground. Practice makes perfect so you might as well use this girl to build your abilities to becoming a stronger person.
And part of what you are going to learn is how to put certain people who are negetive and are not respecting your boundaries, on your ignore list. And make sure your T is helping you learn how to properly set boundaries, because it is something we all need to learn. You set your first boundary by bringing your issue to a teacher.
If that teacher is not effective in helping you maintain your boundaries, then you have to go higher up to someone who can help you do that.
In a way you are lucky because there is a lot of attention being drawn to preventing bullying in schools. So, all your efforts can be used to help guide teachers and higher ups to actually taking appropriate actions to prevent the bullying you are describing.
You also need to go to your "guidance coucelor" in school and get her involved as well.
Make sure you keep a journal and write down anything that effects you from the actions of this other girl. Anyone who interferes with your right to comfortably walk the halls and enjoy your learning enviornment in school needs to be reported.
And the only way that can happen is students taking the needed steps to actively point out poor behaviors by other students. You did the right thing by reporting your concerns, stay on that path. And write down whatever gossip is being passed around about you that is causing you concern "Make sure you keep notes, very important, along with dates and people who are involved".
And remember we are always here to help you and support you.
Open Eyes
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