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Old Mar 03, 2006, 09:57 AM
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No - Sweety.... she came into your life because YOU got HURT.... she was created to protect YOU.... she holds your fears & wounds from the past.

You can protect HER now - by talking to her, comforting her with gentle words and a hug, let her know that she is safe now and that the past abuse will not happen again.... that she is safe to feel and to cry as she needs. She will not leave (or integrate) until she can feel and know that you will OK without her there to still protect you from hurting.

YOU and the ALTERS are BEAUTIFUL together..................................

LoVe,
Rhapsody -