Way to go June_Bug for standing up for yourself. Maybe your boundaries are stronger than what you think? Maybe its just that your boundaries have changed shape and structure? I think your boundaries held really well and allowed you to orientate to the source of your irritation and allowed you to fix your situation. Most of all, I wanted to say Well Done for listening to yourself, and taking notice and taking action on the changes within. You should be really proud of yourself.
June_Bug is no door matt!!! Mess with June_Bug and you're outta there!!!
high five!

kp