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Originally Posted by Stardustforever
I know what you mean. Borderlines get a bad rap. I've read one article about dating a borderline. It said "if your in a relationship get out NOW," and basically made us out to be a bunch of psychotic manipulators.
It's such a ridiculous assumption since the main problem of BPD's is Emotional Disregulation. Borderlines are way more harmful towards themselves than to others.
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They're basically all like that. I've posted a couple articles about topping or domming a borderline in the context of BDSM and both of them are wonderful lovely articles (I say this as a masochistic borderline sub), but that is literally the only thing I've found about us in sexual relationships that isn't "GET OUT NOW THEY WILL KILL YOU". I just found this site called
http://www.borderlinewaif.com/ which is basically the most upsetting thing ever, it's a whole site set up to warning people not to date borderline waifs.