They're basically all like that. I've posted a couple articles about topping or domming a borderline in the context of BDSM and both of them are wonderful lovely articles (I say this as a masochistic borderline sub), but that is literally the only thing I've found about us in sexual relationships that isn't "GET OUT NOW THEY WILL KILL YOU". I just found this site called http://www.borderlinewaif.com/ which is basically the most upsetting thing ever, it's a whole site set up to warning people not to date borderline waifs.