Listen sweety....when you were typing this post...you had every appropriate realization that your "friend " was over-the-top...and I agreed as I was reading.You then realized how "out there" it was for the friends next behavior.Please do not absorb this persons issues as if you are deserving of this treatment.Because you are not.Generally,when I cut...it is because I was hurt...then angry...suppressed the anger...because I didn't want to 'be mean'...though my anger was just.I then turned the anger inward.Please take a step back...breathe...and ask yourself...which of the two of you has a problem here.I think the other person.Please distract yourself with a nice bath,a hobby...or music which can elicit more power within you.Huggs.WO.olf