I have a 4 year old son. he is the best behaved little man you would ever meet. My problem is that he is AFRAID of washing his hair. He screams he kicks he cries My husband has to hold him down while he begs for him to let go and he screams mommy please save me. He needs to have his hair washed but after today we don't know what to do. He is not afraid of water and we always use baby shampoo. It breaks our hearts to wash his hair.