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Old Jul 15, 2011, 02:44 PM
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Good for you Saluki ~ You're right - you DO deserve better than this. Who needs having to beg for attention?!! Who wants to be nagged at all the time? Find someone who WILL pay attention to you and WILL treat you with the respect that you deserve!!!

Be careful about the resentment tho -- it eats us up. Here's a saying: "Resentment is the poison I take to kill you." Makes sense, doesn't it? The people we resent don't KNOW we're resenting them -- so all we're doing is hurting ourselves!! This resentment in us keeps growing & growing until WE are so sick that we blow!!! Let go of the resentment and just "consider the source." He will get his just desserts at some time or another.

It may be difficult for you to "leave" -- but it's best for YOU. You still might have to work with him, but that doesn't mean you need to LIVE with him. Even if you have to "bunk" with a friend for awhile until you can get your own place, it will be worth it.

Best of luck ~ and God bless! Hugs, Lee
Thanks for this!
salukigirl, shezbut