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Originally Posted by BlessedRhiannon
...it makes me feel "broken" to think that I do rely on this relationship to some extent .......Am I making any sense here? Does anyone understand why this is such a big deal for me? ....
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greetings from The Needless Wonder (yes, complete with cape and everything)
Do I ever "get" what you are feeling, BR, I have been there, been there.
Please go gently and give yourself time. For myself, the "needless" bit is a facade, it's a suit of armor that I put around me to protect from OTHERS; it also hides from Others' eyes the big empty places where things I needed never got filled in. But I know they're there...
maybe, after a while, you will feel less alarmed at allowing yourself to be vulnerable - but you CANNOT rush it, it happens gradually and in its own way and time. Many hugs to you, this is hard stuff. But good news, yr T sounds like she is right on the ball and looking out for you.