Hi everyone. I am new here I am not bi polar myself but believe my husband is. So my question to you is what did it take for you to realize and seek help. I love my husband and do want to stand by him.. but he is in denial that anything is wrong.. so in the mean time his behavior is tearing us apart and really hurting me. I want to do the right thing but do not know what the right thing is.. could really use some advice from somebody that can relate... even someone that was in my husbands position.. Thank you so much