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Originally Posted by 2or3things
I'm with Peaches. Your T has certainly heard it all before, and though I know it feels deeply embarassing, etc. to us, most Ts can see it for what it is and respond appropriately.
Her getting angry with you seems like a little cause for concern to me. But I also know what when we're feeling all self-conscious and embarassed, it's all that much more difficult to hear and see what's coming from our Ts accurately. Maybe check in with her about that next time?
And I know you think there can't be a next time, but there can...really. People have had to say far worse and have made it through. I bet you can too!
--2or3
PS: You threw a water bottle?!
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I know she's heard it all before. But that doesn't make it any easier for me to tell her, you know? She might be used to hearing it, but it's something I've never brought up.
One of us usually gets angry at the other one. But we're both Italian. We're both very stubborn. We argue (sometimes about non-serious things). If we didn't have some sort of argument every week, it wouldn't be "us". We once got into an argument when she tried to say that The Sandlot and Stand By Me are alike. Not even close!
And yes, I threw a water bottle. I figured it was better than punching her wall, injuring my hand, and having to pay for any potential damage.