My wife and I have been married 5 years. We had a pretty good sexual relationship until she got pregnanat with our second child. That was 2 years into the marriage. It's been more than three years since we had sex. She seems to avoid it. I tried to talk about it. She thinks their's no issue to discuss. I do have a sexual desire for her, but she no longer seems to have any towards me. She has become so modest towards me, that she no longer even shows herself to me, even in her underwear. It wasn't like this for the forst three years of our relationship. I can't seem to discuss it. It seems to be taboo to her. I love my wife very much. There is no infidelity to speak of, and I am very very loyal to her, and the our marriage. It is starting to depress me. I feel down and discouraged. Her friends freely talk about sex in their marriage, and there is outward signs of affection in their marriages. I thought that she might see the obvious, since there is no affection anymore in our marriage either. Not even kissing and hugging. I feel hurt.