I'm sorry that happened, whenwillitend. You know what's best for your own son, and those other moms should not be so judgmental. Also, like you said, if the physician truly thought your son were in imminent danger, then he or she would have taken immediate action.

<shaking my head> Some people are so quick to offer insensitive and/or hurtful "advice."

I hope everything goes OK with your son. I had to take mine to a cardiologist, too, when he was 5 because he had an "innocent" heart murmur, but we wanted to be absolutely sure nothing else was going on.

Best wishes!