(((esthersvirtue))) Sigh. I don't use that term, or tend to think that way "things will get better." I find that things don't always feel that way...and then argue with myself which is "better."

Things do change. I, personally, don't do some changes very well, and they feel just as difficult as what was before.

But for you? Keep working on changing things...little by little, till you find one you like "better!" Now THAT I believe can happen!