WHOA! I'm sorry you didn't tell your T that! (Not shut up, but, that your "mind" wasn't on what she was talking about!) Don't let her do that again. Therapy is to work on issues that YOU find pertinent...usually the things that are clogging your thinking. If not the actual items, then the reasons you're ruminating those thoughts.

Maybe by making a list of those things on your mind, each day... and then choosing the ones that don't "go away" by April, will help you lead your T into what is important for you? TC