So, I tried the t-shirt thing, and I am actually feeling better...not sure exactly why. A couple things I noticed while doing it, making messes makes me smile, my kitchen floor is now clean, the ice in my hands did help with the urge to injure, and it was a good distraction. Defeated, I am curious as to what you are going to say the purpose of it was.

Miss Laura, I will try to talk to my hubbie....that is sometimes difficult for me to do; however, just not being a lone is always a big help.