I approached a female (around 25 years old) a couple of times at my fitness club. I was interested in striking up a conversation with her, but on both occasions I got a cool reception sort of like forget it pal, so I discontinued approaching her and put her out of my mind.

Fast forward about 6 months, I happened to notice her working out in the aerobics room the other day and made eye contact with her I noticed she had a look that seem to say I want you but with a look of urgency to it. I sort of did a double take because it was out of the blue and I was on the stairway going down to the pool area with people right behind me so I just kept on going I must just be imagining things so I sort of dropped the incident from my thoughts and continued with my normal routine. The next day I saw her once again in the aerobics room and she caught my eyes and sort of held them looking for some kind of a sign I guess?

The thing is she is an attractive lady but I really don't know anything about her and she did clearly put me off on a couple of prior occasions so I'm hard pressed to figure out what if anything I should do.

Don't get mad at me for saying this but if I had been driving a new Ferrari or recently had won the lotto or perhaps appeared in a blockbuster movie I could understand her purely self interest. But in my case nothing I'm aware has changed in the least.

My strongest choice of actions is to blow her off she's probably just a flake. Do you think that is most likely the case? If your answer is maybe she was involved with someone and now she's not, then your basically saying stay clear of her. Because it’s never wise to start up a relationship with someone on the rebound.