I was thinking about this all day today. And thinking about why some people can't talk and people like me who can't stop talking in therapy.
The analogy I came up with is this.
i view all of the awful things inside me as a poison...like I've been poisoned since i was a child.
The only way to get rid of this poison is to vomit (talk) it out...so when i talk it gets some of the poison out.
I don't know if that's helpful at all or makes any sense, but i was thinking about you today and I always think of myself as getting rid of the bad when I go to T.
And I don't think your T is annoyed. You think T is annoyed but I think it's because your are frustrated with yourself...so you are putting that frustration on T.

Perna - awesome insight on talking around the trauma.