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Old Jul 16, 2011, 08:20 PM
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Originally Posted by sunrise View Post
skysblue, did your H tell you he felt left out by your therapy? If so, do you think it could be because you talk about your therapy to your H? If you don't talk about it much, he probably won't feel left out. Out of sight, out of mind?
Actually he has never shown much interest. Maybe I'm thinking I shouldn't be so secretive about my inner life. I went to therapy for 3 months before telling him. Right now he doesn't know when my appointments are or that I have 2 a week. My default pattern is to keep it to myself but since it's costing so much money, it seems he deserves to learn a bit about it. Not too much detail, of course - most stuff I won't share.