My husband has asked me on occasion what I talk about in therapy. When I stopped going a while back he saw that I wasn't happy and said he thought I needed to start going again :-) I give my husband vague info and tell him I'm getting my head screwed on strait
In the beginning when I started therapy my T met with my husband and I for a one time meeting (unfortunatly she doesn't do marriage therapy). Long story short she told him that he's not a ***. :-) and that I don't have to do something that he wants me to if I don't want to (no matter what). :-) He has heeded that advice and follows it today :-)