Zbmom, thanks for that.

She can be quite toxic, I actually think she is mentally ill herself. So I usually try not to take things to personal, this one just hurt tho.

I was looking through the forum at all the unsupportive family threads. Nauseating...

My family is a little weird about it. It's like they acknowledge it's there, but I think they assume I am strong and am always doing ok. None of them really realize how poorly I am doing at times, and non of them offer any real support or help. And mostly I notice they avoid asking me how I am doing or any such questions. Outta sight outta mind I think is the method here. But they do claim we are a real tight family.