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Originally Posted by palemoss
ummmmmmmm? i know he has a **** buddy too and has been in a toxic relationship with her for the past 4 years.
i feel like i have no self-respect. and it's sad because i would be so good to him.
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I had this pattern in my younger days. After my last disaster, I finally figured out it is really kind of disrespectful to the object of your affections, because you are implying they have a problem (his being in a toxic relationship), and they need you to fix it. Plus if a guy wants a girl, he will definitely let her know (or so I've heard!). You have all the answers yourself within your posting, I wish I had been as smart at your age.
-hankster