Theoretically, one learns from/in T sessions how to "be" in other parts of our life and with other people so we can make those interactions rewarding too.

I was pretty balanced between my T being helpful and my DH being part of that team; I would tell one about the other and often had my T excitedly saying, "Can I use that too!" when I'd tell her ways my DH responded to me that helped me (I have trouble talking sometimes and my husband use to have to say, "I don't hear any nouns!" because I'd be going on and on and he'd have no idea what I was talking about).

In my dreams, I could dream about either my husband or my T and that meant that whatever issue the dream was addressing, it was "safe" for me to look at/start working on, no matter how scary it might seem.

I had sexual thoughts and dreams about my T but realized they were about me, not about the relationship really. T's make a handy ricochet mirror so we can better see inside ourselves and work there, kind of like the mirror on a reflector telescope. Your husband can't make you happy; that's not his job and I think it is sort of related to how you have viewed/worked with your T's in the past (they can't give you what you want either). I think it is good that you brought your husband in though and have more of "you" in there (because you have included the marriage/your husband, are not just wholly focused on thinking your T can solve/be everything anymore). I hope you and T can figure out how to keep moving you forward.