Maya, I don't know if this is going to make you feel better, but I think that MOST women don't have an orgasm due to intercourse itself. There was a study that came out about that many years ago - I don't remember what it was called, but I think the statistic was that only 2 out of 10 can. I guess my point is that it's worth talking to your doctor, but I'm not sure that meds are guaranteed to be the answer. Women have a lot of physical differences in the way that our stuff is arranged down there, and while a psychological/brain chemical issue certainly could be one reason it doesn't happen for you, it's not guaranteed to be the only reason.