Okay to all I dicussed with him and we are going to the doctor on monday.
We actually had sex on our own lastnight but was interupted by baby crying. I'm sorry to say but I was relieved that she interupted. That is a sickening thought but true.
We are getting help though and I will keep posted on how it goes.
I also am not taking the advice of threatening with a knife or charges because I want our marriage to work. Not fall apart because I have issues.